Episode #11: Hi and welcome back to You Are the Magic Pill. I am so excited that you're here with me today. I call this episode, don't tell me what to do, because I don't know about you, but when someone tells me what to do, I just don't really like it. And I think that I know why I don't like it, it's because it triggers me a little bit. I think it's because of my childhood and my upbringing. I was the youngest in my family, and so I was constantly told what to do, and I never really had to make a decision, because all my decisions were basically made for me. Throughout much of my life for me. I lacked the confidence to think that I could make a decision. I let other people guide me and live my life. I was just like this person going about and doing what people told me to do. So I think... Now, when people try to tell me what to do, I'm like, Oh yeah, I don't like that. Listen in to hear more...
IN THIS EPISODE:
• Basically, I got married at 19 because I didn't know who I was. I didn't believe in myself. I bought into the fact that I would never make it out of my own. That I would never be anything. And that this is what I should do. (3:00)
• We have these experiences that happen in our lives, and then when we make those choices and we have things happen, then that allows us to have that contrast and then we're like, Okay, I'm not going to to do that again, I learned what I needed to learn. (4:48)
• If you just kinda let other people guide you, let other people determine your future, take a pause and think about that and really feel what's going on in your body, and if it feels right, that's great. But if it doesn't feel right, and you feel like you've been inserted into somebody else's life or into a job, or into whatever it is you're doing, that you feel like that it doesn't feel like you belong, or it doesn't feel like what was meant for you. Then take a pause and think about it. (7:39)
• So we all need to just go within, you need to search within your own heart and go that path, go that narrow path, and that is where you find your bliss, that's what you'll find your happiness. (9:08)
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